How ordering works

CoyWorks is built around discreet, low-data ordering for consenting adults. No customer account is required.


1. Configure

Choose your product options and customization. Custom items are made to the configuration shown in your cart.

2. Identify discreetly

Checkout asks for your FetLife name and gives you the option to add an email address. We do not ask for a shipping address or phone number for pickup orders.

3. Pay manually

Your order is placed on hold. A Tikkie or Dutch bank payment request is arranged manually after the order.

Pickup and delivery

Available pickup events and appointments are shown during checkout. Event options automatically close 48 hours before the event so there is enough time to prepare your order. Orders are not shipped unless a separate arrangement has explicitly been made.

Manual confirmation

Because payment and handover are handled manually, placing an order is the start of the process rather than an instant anonymous payment transaction. If you provide an email address, order emails can be sent there; otherwise communication can stay outside the store.

Adults only: CoyWorks products and events are intended for consenting adults aged 18+.